tilt: adjust node command so we exit cleanly

Tiltfile

@@ -7,7 +7,7 @@ local_resource(
         "server/package.json",
         "server/package-lock.json",
     ],
-    serve_cmd="npm run dev",
+    serve_cmd="sh -c 'node scripts/ensure-prisma-client.mjs && exec node ./node_modules/tsx/dist/cli.mjs watch src/index.ts'",
     readiness_probe=probe(
         period_secs=2,
         timeout_secs=1,
@@ -24,7 +24,7 @@ local_resource(
 local_resource(
     "web",
     cmd="npm ci --no-audit --no-fund",
-    serve_cmd="npm run dev",
+    serve_cmd="node ./node_modules/vite/bin/vite.js",
     deps=[
         "web/package.json",
         "web/package-lock.json",